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My Kingdom For A. . . Marshmallow?: The Astounding Aftermath

May 8, 2012 by

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  Even four-year-olds and marshmallows, cute a combination as they are, get old after a while. So that, it seemed, was that, as sociologist Walter Mischel, lead researcher on the Stanford Marshmallow Study, got publication after publication out of his marshmallow-eating kids run, and he knew enough to be pretty pleased with himself. If you’ll remember from last post, […]

My Kingdom For A. . . Marshmallow?: The Initial Study

May 7, 2012 by

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If I had to pick my ‘top 3 favorite’ social science experiments, it’d really be no contest. [Now, if you're in awe of my mastery of the field of social science, you've forgotten an important point that I perhaps haven't repeated in nearly 2 weeks: My son is Professor Eli Finkel, social psychology professor at […]

Social Maladjustment: All Around Us–and A Risk Factor For Mental Illness

May 5, 2012 by

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My friend Evelyn has potential to be a terminally tedious grandparent. She talks about her grandkids as if we–meaning the world–are merely fortunate that these children have chosen to grace us with their presence. I try to act appropriately grateful.  I have heard about merit scholarships, acceptances to magnet schools, stellar performances on the recorder […]

Children Who Miss Social Cues–Is It Even Worse Than We Thought?

May 4, 2012 by

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Penny* is in eighth grade, but quite childish. At school she uses a kleenex box to prop up the books on her desk, and it’s become something of an obsession. If someone–innocently–takes a piece of tissue, well, poor Penny crumbles. She has to leave the room to recover her equanimity and wipe her eyes, and […]

Complicated Bereavement: Mourning Someone You Never Really Knew

April 15, 2012 by

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Well, I never really knew you ’til you said goodbye~Vince Gill If you want to know something about bereavement that slides from ‘normal’ to ‘complicated’ in a moment of revelation, due to unimaginable circumstances, you need look no further than to the mourning experiences of Julie Metz and Reeve Lindbergh. As you can see in my […]

Warning Signs Your Date Might Be a Commitment Phobe

April 3, 2012 by

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The truth will out, as it always does. Eventually you will know that your partner is commitment phobic. Perhaps you’ll be like Sally, only to discover after umpteen years of false promises that your man won’t be walking you down the aisle. Or, like Wendy, you may learn that the reason your partner won’t marry you, after […]

Living With–Or, Commonly, Without–A Commitment Phobe–Part II

April 2, 2012 by

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Let us just take a brief moment to thank Brad Pitt for his innovative contribution to the Commitment Phobe cause. Says Pitt: “Angie and I will consider tying the knot when everyone else in the country who wants to be married is legally able.” At once seemingly sensitive to single-sex couples deprived of the right to marry, demonstrating […]

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